After speaking with parents and carers, we have put together the following information which you may find useful in addition to the Quick Links section of this website. If you are a school or professional, you may find this section useful in supporting your families.
Caring for somebody else’s child
Children are often brought up by members of their extended families, friends or other people who are connected to them. This happens for lots of different reasons and a variety of different arrangements. More information can be found on the Kent County Council website.
Charities and other organisations supporting Kinship Carers and Adopters
- Adoption UK . The website also has information on Education Resources.
- Children and Trauma Community Hub provides support for adopters, foster carers, special guardians and the professionals working with them.
- Families in Harmony is an organisation dedicated to supporting families and kinship caregivers from diverse backgrounds.
- Family Rights Group – Free, independent and confidential advice for parents, kinship carers, relatives and friends of children who are involved with children’s services in England or need their help. They support families to work with social workers and understand the law, their rights and options.
- First 4 Adoption
- Kent PACT – a Parent carer forum, to help get their voices heard.
- Kinfest is a registered charity run entirely by volunteer kinship carers. Every donation and penny raised goes directly into supporting kinship families through events, holidays, and community building activities.
- Kinship Carers UK is a national charity that supports and advises family and friends’ carers often called Kinship Carers or Connected Carers that are thinking or taking on the role of parenting someone else’s child.
- Kinship is the leading care charity in England and Wales.
- PAC-UK Special Guardianship Support Service provides comprehensive and up-to-date information, guidance and support for special guardians.
- PAC-UK
- Special Guardianship Support provides information and resources for Special Guardian Carers.
Education related Financial Support and benefits
- Children Care costs for pre-school children.
- Free School Meals – If your child is under 19 and in full-time education, and you receive certain benefits, you may be able to get free school meals for them.
- Pupil Premium for previously looked after children. If a child or young person has been in the care of a local authority, prior to a Special Guardianship or Child Arrangements order, the school will be able to claim pupil premium for previously looked after children.
- School Uniform information for Kent. Also, contact your school for more information on their second-hand uniforms available.
- Transport to school costs for eligible children.
Special Education Needs and Disabilities
- Autism and ADHD providers in Kent
- BBC Parents Tool Kit SEND tips and advice
- Department of Education SEND Code of practice: 0-25 years.
- Department of Education SEND information
- IASK – Impartial support and advice for families and young people.
- KCC Mainstream Core Standards – information on what help schools put in place to support children with SEND.
- KCC SEMH Toolkit for Mainstream Settings – information on how mainstream settings support children and young people with Social, Emotional and Mental Health needs.
- Kent Local Offer for children and young people with special educational needs and disabilities aged 0 to 25 years. It gives information and support services available to families in their local area.
- Kent SEND – what to do if you think your child has special educational needs.
- Kent SEND Directory – information on SEND support groups, clubs, sports, charities and activities.
- KCC Social and Emotional Mental Health Needs
- SEND information and webinars for Kinship families.
Local Support
- Adoption Support Groups
- Adoption Partnership South East
- KCC Special Guardianship Order and Therapeutic Support Team. The Special Guardianship and Therapeutic Support Team supports families after the SGO has been granted. Contact 03000 419486 or email sgosupport@kent.gov.uk for more information.
- Kent Family Hub. Advice, support and services to help throughout your family journey, from newborns to 19-year-olds, or up to 25 year olds with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND).
- Kent SEND Directory – information on SEND support groups, clubs, sports, charities and activities.
- KCC guide to Online Safety for your Family
School Attendance and general school information
- Coram Child Advice Law information on school attendance and absence
- How KCC help with School Attendance
- Relational Approaches to School Belonging – helping schools to support their communities.
- KCC School Places and Admission
- Finding the Right School – Kinship charity
- Education advice for Parents, Guardians and Carers of children who have left care through a Permanency Order
- School Transitions for trauma experienced young people
- Suspensions and Exclusions Advice for parents and carers
- KCC information on how to appeal an exclusions
- Department of Education’s Guide for Parents on School Behaviour and Exclusion
- The Adoptables Toolkit explores issues such as friendships, relationships, family, lesson topics and what young people would like teachers to know.
- Emotionally Based School Avoidance (EBSA) information, webinars and resources for Kent families and those that support them.
- Elective Home Education
- Attainment and Progress Levels explained
- Post16 Useful Information
- Post16 Options
- Post16 Information and Transition Resource Checklist
- How schools can support children in kinship care
- Kinship care and support with education
Emotional Health and Wellbeing
- Kent Resilience Hub
- Kent and Medway Children and Young People's Mental Health Service (CYMHS)/NELFT NHS Foundation Trust
- Mental Health Information from KCC
- Mental Health Support for people aged 17+
- Mental Health Wellbeing Hub
- Mental Health Friends Handbook for 13-16 years olds
- Mental Health UK covering a range of issues for adults and young people.
- MindEd for Families
- Anna Freud resources for adoptive parents, special guardians, kinship carers and foster carers.
- Barnardo's Supporting your child's mental health
- Mind – useful contacts for 11-18 year olds
Recommended Books and Classroom Resources
The diverse nature of today’s family structures means that schools need to be inclusive to all types of families as well as providing education as to the importance of social acceptance.
There is a vast array of books and classroom resources for all age groups. These can be used, not only in PSHE lessons, but across the curriculum.
The lists below are a good starting point, but there are many more available.
- Anxieties and Emotions
- Attachment
- School and Classroom Resources
- Family Diversity
- Identity and Life Story
- Loss
- Love
- Starting School and Transitions
- Adoption
Reading with your child
- Kent Support to help get children into reading.
- Literacy Trust – the benefits of reading
- BookTrust – the benefits of reading
- BookTrust Support for Kinship Carers
- Using stories to discuss emotions and identity in your kinship family
- Reading well for families – for children up to the age of 2 years old.
- Reading well for children - for children aged 7-11 years old.
- Reading well for teens – for teenagers aged 13 – 18 years old.
- Reading with your child – tips on reading books with your child.
- Beanstalk Charity. Tips for growing a love of reading.
- Top Tips for reading with your child – part of the BBC Parent’s Toolkit.
Supporting your child with Maths
- National Numeracy advice, ideas and materials to help your children feel good about maths.
- BBC Bitesize – Top tips for doing maths at home.
- The Education Hub – top tips for helping children feel more confident with maths.
- BBC Play online maths games
- Times Tables Games